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Micky’s 39.5 birthday

Today is Micky’s 39.5 birthday!

I don’t think we stop to celebrate ourselves enough. I think this is especially true when there’s the chaos of kids, work, keeping up with the few friends who have stuck around, and what have you. Celebration takes time; it takes effort; and who has either of those?

So, as a combined house warming and celebration, I threw a party for Micky today. It was so much fun!

I spent the day in the garden pulling up every damn weed. I mowed the patch of lawn we have. I even found a worm (and this time put him in a much safer place. He lives in one of our planters, and I hope to find him again soon!).

I found a caterer named Nicole through Betsy and decided that that was the way to go after seeing it work so well for Randa at Christmas. That was a genius idea on my part 🙂

Food was killer; kitchen was clean; it was epic!

Then I made a book of all the folks who showed up with photos of Micky, and they all signed it as a guest book.

We even sang happy birthday around a cake.

It was a good day to celebrate a lovely lady. Happy 39.5 Micky!

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Luka’s first pet… kind of

On the walk to school today, I found a worm on the sidewalk. I figured it was a goner anyway, and so I picked it up, and handed it to Luka.

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The poor guy survived a full day of school, and we released him into the wild when we got home. I don’t think he’s going to do very well though…

Update (4/5/14): This post was written in the future anyway, but today we discovered what happened… he got eaten by a colony of ants. They were finishing him off just as we got there. It wasn’t pretty 🙁

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It’s a scream out loud kind of day

Getting out of email, and being able to solve real problems is hard.

Fighting technology as basic as wireless router vs. cooling system is frustrating.

Feeling like no matter what you’re 2 days behind is just depressing.

So tonight I just hit the reset button. Micky and I let the kids stay up late. We had spaghetti together. They fell asleep. We fell asleep. And I pushed a magic reset button. The roller coaster has been really extreme lately. I get ahead; then I fall behind. I know what’s next, and then the horizon fogs up again.

So this weekend, I’m going to go one step further, and make the list of all lists. I want to understand what the entire quarter needs to look like, put names against each item, and then figure out how we’re going to get there. Because at some point it all scales or it falls apart.

Oh shit, this is going to be a fun ride over the next 90 days :-/

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Competing with equity, passion, and entrepreneurship

This week we lost both Betsy and Byrne to true start ups (venture backed companies as opposed to our corporate backing). The lovely Nicki Dexter is in town, and we’ve been jamming about what it is that makes TokBox tick.

The combination has led me to think quite a bit about how we can fight the Silicon Valley game.

The obvious things don’t make for an interesting blog post. They are what they are, and we’ll do our best to make them work. The selling points for joining the product team at TokBox are actually quite simple:

  1. You want to solve a problem that can fundamentally disrupt a 100-year old industry
  2. You enjoy solving problems that have non-obvious finish lines because getting there is most of the fun
  3. You’re going to come out of the experience as a premier product-experienced platform talent

#1 really speaks to the kinds of problems you want to solve as a product manager or designer. Do you really want to customer insight your way to the next widget on the machine that makes it 10% better? The answer should be yes for 99% of people. And that’s okay. I want that 1%

#2 speaks to your personality. The non-obvious, and the vaguely defined have to be friendly or somewhat well known playgrounds. Coming from a well established place that has millions of customers doing trillions of events against your stack isn’t going to translate. We’ll be there in two years. But today you’re playing with different numbers, and so the game has less of a playbook.

And I think #3 is the one that should speak to your career the most. Platforms are the next (or current) major contribution that Silicon Valley is throwing into the world. Platforms take really hard problems, and they make them accessible to folks who don’t want to solve those hard problems. Learning how to be great at developing product is transferable to the fullest order, and we know how to build platform.

So I can’t give you equity or visibility to the latest VCs in the business. But I can help you change the world, and be excellent at it in the process.

So come join us 🙂

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It feels insincere

There was an election in Turkey over the weekend.

My Facebook news feed is full of folks who are predicting the beginning of the end for AKP. The change in the vote results is quite noticeable. Unfortunately, it’s mainly the right switching from the religious freaks to the nationalist freaks. This past summer folks updated their photos and their names. They virtually joined protests. The folks who did it had a huge sense of pride and community.

But it’s all fake.

You can’t change the world on Facebook. You can’t leave a country when you’re 18, never vote, and enact change.

And yet we all do it.

We sign online petitions as if anything will change as a result. We ask politicians to pay attention. Governments to change their ways. All because we hit the “Connect with Facebook” button, and share our email address.

I genuinely have no idea what has happened with any of the online petitions that I’ve signed. And I’m no longer going to sign a petition unless I’m willing to put money or action behind the signature.

Because it needs to feel sincere.

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It’s official…

My promotion to Director of Product Management has been announced to the team.

I set as a goal for 30 to be promoted. I’ve wanted this for two reasons:

1) External validation that I’ve contributed to the story of TokBox. I’ve been here for almost 6 years now. I’ve had two careers. One in engineering. One in product. The arc throughout has been platform, platform, platform (even when it wasn’t). And now I’m excited to be able to tell this story to the world.

2) Personal satisfaction that I’ve grown and passed through a significant professional milestone.

And now I’m there. And it feels amazing.

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Another first: Babies’ first movie theater experience

We went to go see Frozen today with the babies.

They’ve both been learning the songs on YouTube, and they recognize the various characters. So after gym (given it was raining like crazy), we decided to book tickets, and make a go of it. The Greens came with us.

They both loved it!

Amelia sang along to the songs. She kept asking about where her favorite characters were, and why they were sad, or happy, or scared. Luka sat in Micky’s lap, and just watched the whole thing. He was so focused. I don’t know if he blinked once in the 90 minutes.

I’m so glad that this was their first movie theater experience.

A wonderful movie. A wonderful time. I even saved the ticket stubs so that they can throw it into a memento book one day. Really, we should start it for them… that’s a cool idea.

Amelia’s favorite was Anna and “Let it go”.

Luka was unable to articulate 🙂

I hope Disney keeps cranking them out at this level because it was really great, and I’m really excited to see more like it.

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Making time to laugh with friends

Tonight, after work, I headed over to Justine & Vander’s place for drinks with the gang. I inherited a group of gals from Micky who over time have expanded to be a group of gals and guys. Marriages, babies, and time have come and gone. Getting together is really tough to do, and so when we get to do it (and hell, we’re going to do it twice this weekend) it’s a really great chance to just let loose and relax.

I finally saw the McClain’s place. The remodel was gorgeously done. There are mounts of animal heads all over the place. I guess you can take a boy out of Oklahoma, but you can’t take the Oklahoma out of the boy 🙂

Then a small sub-crew headed over to Zazie’s where we ate too much, and laughed too hard.

It was a good start to a much needed weekend.

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Process isn’t a bad word

The goal of this experiment is whether we can be smarter about building product because we pay more attention to how we do it.

Everyone I know out in the Valley is quite process averse. Folks write against it, preach against it, and fight against it as much as possible. We’re not big enough to need it or there’s nothing broken with our product development cycles are the main excuses I’ve heard though there are others.

I’ve been trying to figure out why this is a ruse.

I’ve seen where the small team fails without a process. I’ve seen where the perception of success is simply a lack of visibility into what’s possible.

And so I’m putting my money where my mouth is.

We’ve talked about this a lot amongst the product team. Betsy started it off by putting a more visible design process on the table. The design team has picked it up by putting a work board onto a wall in the office. On the product management side, we’re creating a one page spec sheet. In one page, we want to define business requirements, use cases, core functional requirements, and a success criteria. It involves being brief, being straight forward, and properly building a living document.

The outcome should not be a cumbersome set of hurdles to get things out the door. It should be a common language for product development that helps us become great at it.